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Going into flirting with seriousness is like going into a water gun conflict in the desert – you won’t get anybody wet. Even James Bond uses humor in his famed conquests, although he keeps a straight seductive face while doing it. Obviously, funny flirting is the right way to tickle the girl’s imagination and to kindle an interest in you, but in order to fully accept this, you might need it broken down, so here you go.
Why Funny Flirting Works
1. Tension Breaking Flirting
If you approach a girl and just tell her that she’s pretty you’re not giving her a lot to work with, she can basically only say “thanks” and sit there uncomfortably. Try following the compliment with a joke, it will break the tension and will move the conversation forward. It’s called a push/pull technique, and you can find greater detail on how to flirt with this mind frame in this video. Other hints on how to approach girl during the day can be found here.
2. Funny Flirting Means Confidence
We see comedians or regular guys do the self-deprecating humor, but that’s just something that they realized works for them, no one would be able to go on stage or to capture a group’s attention without having confidence. Being funny is often being courageous and witty to say something no one has thought off, to put yourself out there, and women almost above else like confidence. This way of flirting seems more natural than trying to be seductive and mysterious. Don’t ever go too far with the self-deprecating humor, it might be interpreted as a sign of weakness.
3. Flirting = Early Signals
Type of inital flirting translates to the type of a relationship the two people will have. If you can make a girl laugh at the start, you’ll make her roll on the ground catching her breath once you have all the specific internal jokes. Being in a relationship is sometimes tiresome, so making it clear to the girl that you’re the kind of guy that can make a stressful situation funny and entertaining is of high value. It’s hard to get boring to a person if you keep making them laugh and make the every day a holiday.
4. Funny Flirters Are Enjoyable
Funny people don’t take themselves too seriously and no one wants someone who is constantly brooding, not even the goth kids. By testing out whether you have the same humor right of way with a quickflirt you’ll also see whether the girl will potentially laugh at all the jokes and teases you throw her way or get upset. This surely applies to online dating sites as well. Having a shared sense of humor is like speaking the same language. And you don’t want to spend your time miming and looking in the dictionary too much.
5. Science
Making a woman laugh sends a signal to her brain that you’re intelligent, as that is how being funny is perceived in our society, although there are studies which didn’t manage to prove this belief. When you make someone laugh their body sends them positive messages too, pulse and blood pressure initially rise but then drop below normal, allowing blood vessels to expand more and flow more easily. So these flirting tips might even help you make someone’s health better.
Focusing on yourself is still the best way to attract women, and to improve your humor try surrounding yourself in it, watch stand-up comedy, sitcoms and hang around with people who make you laugh. This will easily transfer to your flirting.
