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You’ve seen the world and you’ve been with different women, but for some reason you’ve never felt this way before. It somehow used to be all about you and now all of a sudden there is somebody else in your life as well, somebody you simply can’t stop thinking and talking about. If you’d rather spend time with her than playing your favorite games, watching TV or hanging out with buddies, there are pretty good chances that something special is coming your way. But is it just a fleeting thing or the real deal and how do you know if you are in love? Let’s take a look at some of the infallible signs you are in love!
1. She is Always on Your Mind And in Your Heart
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Your days and nights are filled with thoughts about this wonderful woman and she sneaks into just about everything you do. You’ve lost the full focus on your job or things you like and you don’t recognize yourself anymore – you started paying attention to all sorts of incredible things you hadn’t been interested in before and you’re wondering if this or that could be something she would really like to see or have. Things get even more complicated when you catch yourself talking about her most of the time when you have something to say, because this seems to be your brain’s subconscious way of letting the world know you’re in love and how serious it is. If this is not enough, remember what’s usually on your mind and in your heart when you go to bed and who do you think of when you open your eyes in the morning – we’re pretty sure we already know your answer. And if she haunts your dreams as well and you wake up with a big smile on your face looking for a way to continue that dream right there where it stopped, then you know your answer just as well as we do. In that case we’re not talking about one of possible signs you are in love, you’ve just tested positive to the advanced form of infatuation. There is no cure, so take action and check if she thinks about you at least half as much as you think about her.
2. You Want to Know Everything about Her
One of the proven signs you’re in love and not just having a fling has to do with how much interest you show for the life of this woman you can’t shake off your mind. If it was simply one-night stand, you surely don’t want to get into details or perhaps you don’t even want to see her ever again, but if on the other hand you have a strong desire to find out who she really is deep underneath, that’s a totally different story. When truly in love, you need to know what makes her happy so that you can cheer her up day after day. You avoid things she doesn’t like and you suffer if she feels bad, because her feelings matter so much to you. You’d listen to her for hours and you want to learn all about her friends, favorite places, talents and hobbies. You didn’t just wake up one day and consciously decided to do things this way, you simply can’t help being there for her and loving her just the way she is. If you care, you don’t need to ask yourself anymore how to tell if you’re in love because you know you are, head over heals.
3. You Make Plans for the Future with Her in Them
This time things are different – you don’t just call her on a date and wait to see how it goes, you’re planning much more in advance. Maybe you’re dreaming of spending your next summer vacations lying on the beach beside her or visiting some of her favorite destinations. You could be as well giving a serious thought to the idea of taking her to meet your family and dearest friends – if you wish her to meet the most important people in your life and if you badly need their approval, it’s a sign that you’re very serious about this relationship. It’s not that you just like her a lot any more, she has obviously become the love of your life.
4. All Her Quirks and Imperfections Seem Lovely to You
It’s easy to admire somebody’s virtues and finest achievements but if you happen to find charming her clumsiness or all those strange little things and small rituals that make her unique as well, that surely means you’ve started showing signs you are in love. Things may fall out of her hands all the time or she could be packing her entire wardrobe “just to be on the safe side” when going on a weekend backpacking trip and it won’t get on your nerves; on the contrary, you’ll find it adorable and you’ll assist her with pleasure known only to those who honestly care for someone. If you can accept her imperfections and would still rather be by her side than anywhere else, you can be pretty sure that this is the real deal.
5. You’ve Become a Better Version of Yourself
One of the best signs you are in love in one of its most beautiful and finest forms is when you realize that your feelings for the significant woman in your life are unconditional and that you wouldn’t change anything about her even if you could, while at the same time being inspired to work on your own improvement. You like her a lot and you want her to like you as much as possible, so you’re doing all you can to appear really interesting and attractive to her. It’s not strictly limited to your looks, interests and knowledge – it has to do with becoming a better person in every possible way. If she is the one, you’ll notice with time that both of you will grow together and evolve to the mutual satisfaction. She won’t be just your partner in love, but in each and every life adventure you’re about to share together. If you eventually notice that this person has also become your best friend to your utmost joy and satisfaction, that means that you were truly blessed with something rare and extremely precious. Now that you’re sure you are in love and that your feelings are reciprocated, you just need to take great care of it. Enjoy your days and play smart because you know what they say – lightning doesn’t strike twice.
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