Sex Advice from Porn Stars: jessica drake

Sex Advice from Porn Stars is a weekly column on CraveOnline where we’ll be getting sex tips from the most sexually knowledgeable people in the world…  Porn Stars!

jessica drake (that’s right, no caps) is the ideal candidate for this column, as she’s used her skills in the bedroom in order to create jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex, an educational DVD series in which she helps couples have the very best sex possible.

With that being said, it was imperative that we got her to give us some sex advice. Here’s what she had to say…

On Foreplay vs. Sex…

I like it all, but I am a HUGE fan of foreplay. Often, it’s the best sex of all. 

On Common Foreplay Mistakes Men Make…

Rushing it! I know it’s been said a million times, but really take your time and invest the effort. It’s usually reciprocated. 

On Common Sex Mistakes Men Make Make…

Feeling too cocky about their “signature move” instead of realizing everyone is different, so different partners will need different things.

On the Best Sex She’s Ever Had…

I can’t narrow it down to just one time, but it’s usually at a time where I’m not expecting it. I also love being seduced. Sex to me is best when it’s a longer experience, not linear. I love to mix it up.

On Kinky Stuff that Girls Like…

We’re all really unique, but I’d say spanking & hair pulling, getting a little rough with some dirty talk thrown in. 

On How Men Should Approach their Partners with their Kinky Fantasies…

There are so many ways! You can bring it up in bed by whispering in her ear; you can watch a movie together that showcases something new and exciting; you can play fantasy date night where you take turns revealing fantasies. Buy her a new sex toy or lingerie – surprise her.

On the Best Sexual Position for Women…

Depends on how she’s shaped inside and the size/shape of her partner and his cock.

Her Biggest Turn-On…

Eye contact, confidence and rough sex.

Her Biggest Turn-Off…

Bad hygiene is a big one.

Her Advice on Spicing Things Up in the Bedroom…

Always be willing to take that first step and try something different, even if you feel silly or awkward.

On Talking to Your Girlfriend About Porn…

Don’t hide it from them. Instead try to figure out what it is that makes your partner uneasy. Fear of being replaced? The pressure of “performing” like the pros? Reassure her that it’s just a fantasy for the two of you to share together, and maybe you’ll find something that you’re both comfortable trying. Try taking her to one of the boutique style sex shops and choose a movie, toys, and lube together… then go home and play Bed Island!