Emotional Affairs: We Were Just Texting… You Were Just Cheating

It can be difficult to determine if someone was innocently flirting or text message cheating when you catch them communicating electronically red handed.  It all comes down to meaning, boundaries and intent.  With the digital age of dating still somewhat new, many couples do not bother to discuss their expectations when it comes to social media, texting or other forms of messaging.  You may know in your heart if what you’re doing is right or wrong and you’ll either choose to hide it or do it openly, often either raising more suspicion or helping to avoid it altogether. The most important thing to appreciate is that emotional cheating can just as harmful as physical cheating because without trust, you have absolutely nothing.

The biggest challenge to communicating by text is that you can’t hear someone’s voice, see their facial expressions, or interpret their body language.  Messages can be misconstrued and misinterpreted in a variety of ways that are often misleading. Because of this, emotional affairs can sometimes occur unintentionally. Here are some signs that you are emotionally cheating:

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